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發現女兒書包裡放了保險套，該怎麼辦？兒子的衣櫥裡竟藏了女性內衣褲，我該如何跟他溝通？開口跟孩子談「性」有多困難，據國健署調查，有多達3成5的家長對性相關話題難以啟齒，不曉得如何自然、清楚的與孩子溝通；專家更提醒家長，不用等到青春期，小三、小四就是該與孩子談性的第一道高峰。

國健署去年一連辦理10場性健康親職講座，進行問卷調查，讓家長填答開放式問題：當您與孩子溝通與「性」有關的議題時，您遇到最大的困難或疑惑為？結果有35%的家長直言難以啟齒。

調查也發現，有28%的家長坦承自己無法與孩子搭起溝通的橋樑，甚至有部分家長擔心自己的性教育知識不足或不知如何適齡教育。

台灣性教育學會理事長鄭其嘉表示，這些願意參加的家長已經算是有心，就實際觀察，不敢開口與孩子談性的家長比率還會更高。她也提醒，事實上，對性萌發好奇的年齡，最早也最常見落在小三、小四這個時期，雖然還沒進入青春期，但孩子往往更加毫無尷尬的直接冒出問題，叫家長措手不及。

家長第一反應往往是驚嚇不已，鄭其嘉說，直覺擔心孩子是不是看到、或知道了什麼兒童不宜的內容，才會對性好奇，但她建議，這個時候不必過度反應，最好的做法就是反問孩子為什麼想問這個問題？你覺得答案又是什麼呢？以了解發問的想法。

國健署「青少年網站-性福e學園」目前也提供關於親子性溝通技能、性行為等相關文章及教材，提供家長與孩子談論相關問題時，可以主動跟孩子一起觀看網站上的情境圖畫，教導孩子了解懷孕的成因，以及如何藉由認識身體界線與距離來保護自己。

國健署強調，網站文章皆由具專業性教育、衛生教育、婦產科、精神科、輔導與諮商領域的專家撰寫或審核，並且區分適合的閱讀對象及主題供選擇，而家長也可透過網站中「諮詢特派員」專區設置的常見Q&A查詢功能，搜尋到相關問題的歷史問答，另外也可直接於線上匿名提問。

What should I do if I find a condom in my daughter's bag? I have hidden underwear in my son's closet. How can I communicate with him? According to the investigation by the National Health Service, as many as 30% of parents have difficulty speaking about sex-related topics, and they do not know how to communicate with children naturally and clearly. Experts remind parents not to wait until In adolescence, Xiaosan and Xiaosi are the first peaks to talk about sex with children.

Last year, the National Health Service conducted 10 sessions of sexual health parent-child lectures to conduct a questionnaire survey for parents to answer the open question: When you communicate with your child about "sex" issues, do you have the greatest difficulty or doubt? As a result, 35% of parents are blunt to say.

The survey also found that 28% of parents admit that they can not bridge the gap between their children, and even some parents worry about their lack of knowledge about sex education or how to educate them about age.

Zheng Qijia, chairman of the Taiwan Sex Education Association, said that the parents who are willing to participate are already interested. As for the actual observation, the ratio of parents who dare not talk to their children will be even higher. She also reminded that, in fact, the age of curiosity about sex is the most common in the period of Xiaosan and Xiaosi. Although it has not yet entered adolescence, children often have more problems without problems, and parents are caught off guard.

Parents’ first reaction is often frightened. Zheng Qijia said that she is curious about whether she sees or knows what children are not suitable for, but she suggests that it is not necessary to overreact at this time. The best way is to Ask the child why I want to ask this question? What do you think the answer is? To understand the idea of ??asking questions.

The National Youth Department's "Youth Website - Sexual E-school" also provides related articles and textbooks on parent-child communication skills, sexual behaviors, etc. When parents and children talk about related issues, they can take the initiative to watch the situation pictures on the website with their children. Teach your child about the causes of pregnancy and how to protect themselves by knowing the boundaries and distances of the body.

The National Health Department emphasizes that the website articles are written or reviewed by experts in professional education, health education, obstetrics and gynaecology, psychiatry, counseling and counseling, and distinguish between suitable reading objects and topics for selection. Parents can also Through the common Q&A inquiry function set in the "Consultant Specialist" section of the website, you can search for historical questions and answers about related questions, or you can ask questions directly online.

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